October 5th, 2009

i do..
POSTED AT 01:40 PM

wel.. im just thinking of things.. different things.. wen i remember that one of our churchmates approach me asking about joining the mass wedding in our church.. no need for receptions, expensive clothes, entourage.. and all things needed for a dream wedding.. they just need me and my guy saying the vows.. ang sabi ko nman..ei.. we have plans to get married next yr.. although no date yet.. but really.. ithink our plans are just plain plans.. wala naman kc kaming ginagawa parang magkatotoo to.. honestly, wid wats happening wid us.. i dont think im ready to be tied yet to a man that im not even sure if he really loves me.. ang hirap yata ng ganun parang kasal - kasalan lang..

naalala ko na halos 4 na beses na ata nabanggit yan.. first wen i got pregnant.. naisip nya na magsecret wedding kami.. nasa hustong gulang na nmin daw kami.. sabi ko wag naman tau padalos dalos.. tpos it was mentioned again after we fought wen i caught him wid his ex.. sinabi nya we should get married after 6 months after i gave birth.. pro wala naman nangyayari.. den it was mentioned before my baby's christening.. he said we should start planing for our wedding after our baby's baptism..and it was again mentioned after our baby's christening that we should do it by end of this yr or early next yr..

but now.. the thought of getting married seems far away.. it is just a dream now.. dat im wishing to happen.. or do i?

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about_a_gurl

Comment posted on October 16th, 2009 at 02:04 AM

I would say...don't marry him just because he got you pregnant if you really indeed doubt his love for you. I'm not saying that you have to ditch him (like what I did to my kid's father) but I'm saying you have other options besides marrying him. You have to live your life and not let someone ruin it for you just because you keep holding on to his words! (yep, that sounds like an advice i would have to give to myself...)hehehe. just dropping by! Pero my answer, kung botohan man ito, would be NO! :)

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Ruth

Comment posted on October 7th, 2009 at 10:43 AM

Don't get marry him if you are in doubt.having a baby is not a wrong it happen to some situation, keep in mind that baby needs is a boredom but later is worth a dime, you need a lot of patience and focus the most practical things.married is easy wait the right time to get married.

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